Sunday, March 31, 2013

ME AND VERACITY OF LIF




  LIFE IS NOT A PROBLEM TO BE SOLVED BUT A REALITY TO BE EXPERIENCED



Those born in april are born with strong will power :::::

Jackie Chan {7th april};
B.R.Ambedkar {14th april};
Leonardo Da Vinci {15th april};
Lara Dutta {16th april};
Anju Bobby George {19th april};
Adlof Hitler {20th april};
William Shakespeare {23rd april};
Sachin Tendulkar {24th april};
Al Pacino {25th april};
CHETAN DWIVEDI{15 APRIL}


ABOUT ME:-
kitabon ke panno ko palat kar sochta hu,
yu palat jaye zindagi to kya baat hai,

khwabon main roj milta hai jo,
haqiqat main aaye to kya baat hai,
kuch matlab k liye dhundte hai mujhe,
bina matlab aaye to kya baat hai,
katal kar ke to sab le jayenge dil mera,
koi baaton se le jaye to kya baat hai,
jo sharifon ki sharafat main baat na ho,
wo ek sharabi kah jaye to kya baat hai,
aapne rahne tak to khushi dunga sabko,
jo kisi ko meri mout pe khushi mil jaye to kya baat hai
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REAL FACT'S OF LIFE

A:-

  • The most precious gift that a man can give to others to use 
    his wisdom ; skills and compassion 
    to help them in times of need

  • Wen U Start Ur Day , Keep 3 words In Ur Pocket

                                       TRY-TRUE-TRUST

TRY-4 Better Future , TRUE-Wid Ur Work , TRUST-In GOD

Then Succes Will b in Ur Foot.

  • The harder you work, the luckier you get.

  • Nobody can make you feel inferior without your consent
  • DEFINITION OF HAPPINESS:- 
    The full use of your power along line of excellence

  • When someone tries to impress you, 
    It means he / she is already impressed by you

  • You must pay the price if you wish to secure the blessings.

  • Whatever you believe with feeling becomes ur reality

  • Success is never final, failure is never fatal. It's courage that counts.
  • Khudi ko kar buland itna, ke har takdeer se pehle;Khuda bande se khud pooche, bata,tere raza kya hai??
  • Never worry about the delay in success because,

         construction of PYRAMID takes more time than ordinary building!

  • No Big Work Done Without Any Sacrifice.
  • There Is No Shortcut To Success, It Is A Process.......
  • Na kisi ke prbahaav me jiyo .. No kisi ke Abhav me jiyo .. Ye zindgi hai appki .. Apne svabhav me jiyo
  •  “Tu wahi kar jo main chahta hoon, phir hoga wahi jo tu chahta hai”.
  • इतनी शक्ती हमे देना दातामन का विश्वास कमजोर हो ना हम चले नेक रस्ते पे हम सेभूलकर भी कोई भूल हो ना दूर अज्ञान के हो अँधेरेतू हमें ज्ञान की रोशनी दे हर बुराई से बचते रहे हमजितनी भी दे भली ज़िन्दगी दे बैर हो ना किसी का किसी सेभावना मन में बदले की हो ना हम ना सोचें हमें क्या मिला हैंहम यह सोचे किया क्या हैं अर्पन फूल खुशियों के बाँटे सभी कोसब का जीवन ही बन जाये मधुबन अपनी करुणा का जल तू बहा केकर दे पावन हर एक मन का कोना इतनी शक्ती हमे देना दातामन का विश्वास कमजोर हो ना हम चले नेक रस्ते पे हम सेभूलकर भी कोई भूल हो ना!!
  • कुछ पाने के लिए कुछ खोना नहीं बल्कि कुछ बोना पड़ता है
  • आदमी को मत बदलो आदमी की सोच को बदलो दुनिया बदल जाएगी
  • त्याग दी सब ख्वाहिशेंकुछ अलग करने के लिए, 'रामने खोया बहुत कुछ, 'श्री रामबनने के लिए।
  • तुलसी-तुलसी सब कहेंतुलसी वन की घास।
    हो गई कृपा राम की तो बन गए तुलसीदास।।
  • जो प्राप्त है - वही पर्याप्त है

·       मेरा वचन ही है मेरा शासन

  • मेरा अनुशासन ही है शासन










     

Thursday, February 7, 2013

How to Win Friends and Influence People


How to Win Friends and Influence People is one of the first best-selling self-help books ever published. Written by Dale Carnegie and first published in 1936, it has sold 15 million copies world-wide.[1]Leon Shimkin of the publishing firm Simon & Schuster took one of the 14-week courses given by Carnegie in 1934. Shimkin persuaded Carnegie to let a stenographer take notes from the course to be revised for publication.

Fundamental Techniques in Handling People
1.    Don't criticize, condemn, or complain.
2.    Give honest and sincere appreciation.
3.    Arouse in the other person an eager want.

Six Ways to Make People Like You
1.    Become genuinely interested in other people.
2.    Smile.
3.    Remember that a person's name is, to that person, the sweetest and most important sound in any language.
4.    Be a good listener. Encourage others to talk about themselves.
5.    Talk in terms of the other person's interest.
6.    Make the other person feel important – and do it sincerely.

Twelve Ways to Win People to Your Way of Thinking
1.    The only way to get the best of an argument is to avoid it.
2.    Show respect for the other person's opinions. Never say "You're Wrong."
3.    If you're wrong, admit it quickly and emphatically.
4.    Begin in a friendly way.
5.    Start with questions to which the other person will answer yes.
6.    Let the other person do a great deal of the talking.
7.    Let the other person feel the idea is his or hers.
8.    Try honestly to see things from the other person's point of view.
9.    Be sympathetic with the other person's ideas and desires.
10. Appeal to the nobler motives.
11. Dramatize your ideas.
12. Throw down a challenge.

Be a Leader: How to Change People Without Giving Offence or Arousing Resentment
1.    Begin with praise and honest appreciation.
2.    Call attention to people's mistakes indirectly.
3.    Talk about your own mistakes before criticizing the other person.
4.    Ask questions instead of giving direct orders.
5.    Let the other person save face.
6.    Praise every improvement.
7.    Give the other person a fine reputation to live up to.
8.    Use encouragement. Make the fault seem easy to correct.
9.    Make the other person happy about doing what you suggest.

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Seven Rules For Making Your Home Life Happier
This section was included in the original 1936 edition but omitted from the revised 1981 edition.
1.    Don't nag.
2.    Don't try to make your partner over.
3.    Don't criticize.
4.    Give honest appreciation.
5.    Pay little attentions.
6.    Be courteous.
7.    Read a good book on the sexual side of marriage.